R. M. Kinder is originally from southeast Missouri, Crowley's Ridge, specifically Bloomfield, Stoddard County area (Northernmost county of Bootheel). She attended one year at Southeast Missouri State, but completed BA, MFA, and PhD at the University of Arizona, Tucson, graduating a member of Phi Kappa Phi and Phi Beta Kappa.
From 1989 to 2002, Kinder was a professor of English at University of Central Missouri. Her teaching areas were literature (emphasis on women writers in the US and worldwide) and creative writing. She was Coordinator of Creative Writing, editor of Pleiades literary journal, and established Pleiades Press. Currently editor emerita, Kinder still reads for Pleiades journal and press. She also serves as advisory editor with New Letters journal and BkMk Press and is a co-editor at Sweetgum Press and Cave Hollow Press, both of which promote regional writing.
Kinder is the author of five books. Her first collection of short fiction, Sweet Angel Band, won Helicon Nine Edition's Willa Cather Prize, judged by Robley Wilson, and was published in 1991. Her second collection, A Near-Perfect Gift, won the University of Michigan's Literary Fiction Award, judges Laura Kasiskche and Eileen Pollack, and was published in 2005. Her first novel, An Absolute Gentleman, was published by Counterpoint Press, 2007. Co-authored with Kristine Lowe-Martin is a dual-media biography, Old-Time Fiddling: Hal Sappington, Missouri Fiddler, published by the Johnson Country Missouri Historical Society in 2012. Her most recent work is The Universe Playing Strings, the book featured on the Home page. Kinder’s short fiction, non-fiction, and poems have appeared in numerous publications, among them Passages North, Notre Dame Review, Appalachian Review, Descant, Connecticut Review, North American Review, The Deadliest Games: Tales of Psychological Suspense, After Hours, Confrontation, Dictionary of Missouri Biography,Missouri Life, and The New York Times (Op Ed).
An avid amateur musician, Kinder plays acoustic bass, guitar, mandolin, mountain dulcimer, ukulele, and harmonica. She collects Greek and Roman coins. She is also a videographer. Her YouTube channel (rosemariekinder) features regional musicians, including those who participated in the New Harmonies Roots Music Project, a project coordinated between the Smithsonian and local communities, here the Johnson County Historical Society, in 2009 . Other interests include languages, drama, opera, natural sciences, animals (including humane treatment of them), comparative religion, serial killers, ghost hunting, history of witchcraft, pop culture.